Transition
We are in transition right now. We went from 10 people to 8 people living in our house. I know that still seems like a lot of people to most families, but when you are used to 10, it seems like a lot are missing when there are only 8.
I think it has been hardest on one of the younger boys. Troy, 7, has a hard time with change.
He was concerned about being able to see Katie and Andy every day. So far he has seen them for at least a few minutes each day, but craves their attention when they are here.
I have been trying to help the boys be emotionally prepared for their move, for about 2 months now, and I think that helped quite a bit.
We have had a lot of talks with the kids about growing up and leaving home, so they know it is a normal part of life and that it is a good thing.
I also think that helped me deal with it emotionally, because it has been easier for me than I anticipated.
Dan and I have always enjoyed having our kids around. We have never bought into the “I can’t wait until these kids grow up!” thing.
We have always wanted our time with them to last a LONG time. But God has perfect timing for all things, and we have to trust Him with our kids- especially when they leave home.
It does seem strange going to their new apartment to visit. I guess I’m not used to them really being grown ups yet. They have been married for 10 months, but when they moved out it finally dawned on me that they are REALLY grown up, and they now have a life apart from ours.
I thank God that they are happy and able to make their own way, in His way and His time.
We will continue to miss them, but I am sure it will get easier as we get used to the change.
I am enjoying having my own office- their former bedroom.
Now to finish moving all my scrapbooking suipplies, writing books, and other fun stuff.
Yes, I will get used to this, and possibly faster than I thought.
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