What is it about kids that make adults just want to have fun?
Could it be watching them, and memories from our own childhood coming to mind?
Could it be the unashamed laughter and being silly?
Could it be a deep yearning for things seemingly past- but really still inside of us?
Maybe it is because when we see their innocence, we see someone who is welcomed by God?
Mark 10:14
14When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.
As parents, it is our job to not only allow our children to come to the savior, but to point the way and even take them by the hand to lead them there.
If we can get down on their level and play with them or do things they enjoy, they are more likely to follow our lead when it comes to spiritual things. They will know that what is important to them is important to us.
I have heard so many Christian “experts” say that we are not to be our children’s friends, we are to be their guidance and their authority.
We are to be those things, but without relationship that is respected and enjoyed by both parent and child, those things will not have as much influence as a parent who is also approachable to talk to, and understanding of the emotions that children and teens go through.
When we have fun with and play with our kids, we let them close to a part of us that they wouldn’t see otherwise.
My parents were (and still are), great examples of parents who play. Mom and dad would go on the swings at the park and go down the slide. They would play board games with us, and watch silly cartoons or disney movies with us.
My dad still says that his favorite sport is blowing bubbles (he won’t believe me when I tell him “that is not a sport dad!”)
Take time to play with your kids, let them see you enjoy the things they do, it will open lines of communication that might not otherwise open.
While you are playing you can also be praying, and lead them to Jesus- He wants them to come.
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